CONTENT LIBRARY
Welcome to my content library. If you’re looking for blog articles, published videos, or podcast episodes, you can find them all here.
A Letter To The Women
All the best women I know are single.
They're smart, caring, strong, bold, beautiful, funny, successful, and alone. It's not for lack of trying- they have spent buckets of money and even more time working to be the best possible version of themselves and the best possible partner they can be. These women are better men than the men I know. And the only thing they're doing wrong is that they're doing everything right.
How To Tame Your Dragons: An Epic Life Beyond Fear
Once you stop seeing yourself as a victim of your circumstances and instead an active participant in your own suffering, you change the game. Only after we see and accept these dragons and grow conscious of our toxic choices can we integrate them and become more unapologetically whole.
Why INFJs Need To Travel
Why INFJs Need To Travel
Podcast Interview With Jordan Leigh
Podcast Interview With Jordan Leigh on Something Worth Saying
Why INFJs Don’t Heal (And How They Can)
Why INFJs Don’t Heal (And How They Can): New episode on Youtube and Anchor
Secret Weapons For Wounded Healers
In my blog post, How To Be A Shaman, I mentioned that Shamans know how to work with all different kinds of people. Those who think with their heart, their gut, or their head.
The question has been stirring in me since; how do you work with people who think differently from you?
Why INFJs Attract Narcissists
Why INFJs Attract Narcissists: New episode on Youtube and Anchor
Reading To Awaken
As a kid, my Mom used to take us on trips to the library and let us pick out books. I loved those trips to the library, but I hated reading for school. I have always had a deep hatred for authority and the task of having to read killed the joy in it for me. Once reading for school became required, reading by choice became a rare occurence. Even once I was done with school, my love of reading never really came back to life.
Everything Wrong With INFJs
Everything Wrong With INFJs: New episode on Youtube and Anchor
How To Be A Shaman
I hesitated to write this blog post because I am very aware of the optics. What business does a little American girl like me have in writing about shamanism? I have not gone on any vision quests, I haven’t traveled into the Brazilian rainforest for an ayahuasca ceremony, and I have not been initiated into realms of ancient secrets by any wise old healers.
I have been through trauma that changed the fabric of my reality. In Bowl of Light, the Hawaiian elder Makua says there are 3 ways to achieve transcendence. Sex with someone you love, meditation, and pain and suffering. For some reason, I chose pain and suffering.
Why No One Listens To INFJs
Why No One Listens To INFJs: New episode on Youtube and Anchor
8 Magical Ways to Remember Who You Are
If you’ve been following me already, you know I’m a huge fan of MBTI (Myers Briggs Type Indicator), which is an assessment that identifies your personality type out of 16 different possibilities.
Some people are really resistant to these labels, and I can understand not wanting to be put in a box. But personally, I have found MBTI to be extremely helpful in reclaiming my identity.
How To Have Better Relationships
How To Have Better Relationships: New episode on Youtube and Anchor
How To Use A Toxic Relationship As Fuel
Finding my way through the fog of a toxic relationship was like realizing I was in love with a ghost. He wore the mask of a person he could have been, but that person died a long time ago. Mourning the death of someone who is still alive is an anguish that comes for your bones.
How To Heal Alone And Free
How To Heal Alone And Free: New episode on Youtube and Anchor
Why INFJs Have No Money
Why INFJs Have No Money: New episode on Youtube and Anchor
The INF Directory
For most of my life, I’ve felt like an alien. That all changed when I started meeting other empathic, highly sensitive people. Interestingly, most of those people are INFJ and INFP personality types. Now, I still feel like an alien, but I have other aliens to talk to who actually understand me.
How To Be More Unicorn
To be more unicorn is to be the best version of yourself. The first step is knowing yourself well. Especially, knowing your strengths and weaknesses.
Why Dating Sucks for INFJs
Why dating sucks for INFJs: New episode on Youtube and Anchor
The Misfit’s Guide To Manifesting
There’s a manifestation technique where you practice thinking, feeling, and believing that you already have the things you want in the present tense. Maybe you’ve tried it. Maybe you’ve tried saying affirmations to yourself. Maybe you’ve prayed your heart out to the universe and in spite of all the visualizing and the praying and the begging with every ounce of desire that you have… nothing happens.